I just wanted to share pictures of our new home. I am sorry this took so long however I needed to take care of some things first. I started shopping for a new home in February. Homes started selling really fast and it was difficult to drop everything with Dear Son (Matthew) and run and look at these homes. Many of the foreclosures had multiple bids even in you saw the home within a few hours of the listing. At the start of this process, I knew I wanted a ranch home and not a townhome or a condo or anything else. I suspected I'd end up with a 50's ranch home. The problem was that I couldn't get Matthew in the home, meaning the doors weren't wide enough for his wheelchair or the doorway had too many turns. Even when I could get him into a home, there weren't any homes that I saw that I could get his wheelchair into the bedroom. I figured I'd have to redo the doorways to do that. The market was moving so fast on affordable ranch homes in the area I wanted. I was looking to stay in the same county and had one or two key towns that I was targeting. Both had great school districts and were in good neighborhoods. I bid on three separate homes and lost out on all three. The first home I bid on, had multiple offers before I even bid, one of which had been accepted. I started working with one real estate person however she wasn't available to show me this home until Monday and I had requested to see it on a Friday. Of course, they accepted a bid on Saturday so by the time I saw it on Sunday (with a different realtor), they had already accepted a bid. The home was perfect for us.
Since the homes were moving fast, I began to get creative and started looking at some overpriced homes to determine if I could bid on those. I found a great ranch home down the street from the first home I bid on. It turned out that it had been on the market a while and was in great condition. I bid on the home and with zero competition, I had high hopes they might accept. It was a divorce situation however and the husband and wife had been ordered to liquidate all of their properties (they had four). The wife refused to respond to any and all offers on the house however the husband's attorney had the power of attorney and could sign for the wife. It looked like it would work out. At the last minute, the wife ended up keeping the home since one of her other homes sold, so I was out of luck.
I bid on a third home down the street. I essentially bid on three homes on the same street. I lost out on that home due to a bidding war and I wasn't comfortable increasing my bid. I was getting pretty discouraged at that point mainly since there just weren't any homes available. I had scoured the internet for a home but nothing was happening. I was worried I wouldn't find something before my least expired. While I could have extended my lease, I really didn't want to.
By this time, I was really down. I decided to look at this one townhome in our area because it was right on the walking trail. It had a great location, great landscaping however it needed updating. It was difficult to get Matthew into the home and the only doorway I could get the wheelchair in had a turn that was difficult. The worse feature was the popcorn ceiling. I wanted to put crown molding in the place however when I researched it some more, most of those popcorn ceilings contained asbestos and since asbestos is a leading cause of lung cancer and since Matthew has respiratory issues and weak lungs, I decided to pass on that one.
Finally, I decided to see this townhome. I had seen it a few months prior however I really wanted a home and not a townhome so I passed on it. This time, it just clicked. The open floor plan is perfect for Matthew. There is a bedroom off the front door that has double doors making it easy to get his wheelchair in his room. There is plenty of room in the living area for his wheelchair. The townhome was a flip and everything has been redone so it's like buying a brand new place. This place was only 3 miles from our apartment (we lived on a golf course) and is in a great town. The high school is one of the top high schools in the state and all of the schools (elementary, junior high and high school) are rated 10/10.
Here is a picture of the entrance. Dear Son's (Matthew's) room is off to the right with the double french doors.
This is the master bedroom.
My favorite part of the house is the bathroom. It has beautiful travertine tile and a stunning vanity. The pictures don't do it justice. I like to say that our home is functional for Matthew and pretty for me. They also put travertine tile in the laundry room. I think my first words when I saw the house was that, "I'd be over the moon if I got to do laundry in a room with travertine tile." It's just so pretty.
I like the wood floors. There are bronze accents throughout. They really paid attention to detail and made everything pretty. There are beautiful pull chains in the master bedroom closet. The garage flooring has a special coating and is very pretty. Overall, nearly everything was done beautifully.
Here is a picture of Matt's room.
I purchased the home on March 1st. The mortgage approval process went really fast. The loan was ready to close in 3 weeks. I waited to close until early April due to my current apartment lease. My lease was set to expire at the end of May but I was able to get out of it a month early. Once the loan closed, I started moving things over to the new house. I moved everything myself and had movers come and move just the furniture. It was a lot on top of caring for Matthew, cooking all of his food from scratch. I felt like I worked 24 hours a day for several months! I was exhausted. The new home has worked out pretty well. Everything was new except for the air conditioner. All appliances were new and the only one I needed to purchase was a refrigerator. I purchased a used one for now. Of course since everything was new, that meant I didn't know how to work anything. My new dryer isn't drying clothes very well so I need to have them come out. My air conditioner isn't cooling very well but other than that, things are going o.k. I am working on getting Matthew enrolled at this new school system.
I officially moved last Friday and I turned in the apartement keys on Tuesday. I am looking forward to getting some rest soon. I'll show some pictures once I get things set up. Because it was redone, there weren't any curtain rods, blinds, shelving, etc. I had to put in new blinds plus lots of shelving. I redid the kitchen pantry shelving and replaced the 12 inch shelves with 16 inch shelving. There wasn't any shelving in the linen closet so I had to get that done. Dad installed all of it for me. There is still a lot to be done-towel bars to install, my headboard needs to be attached, Matt's closet needs to be redone and my crystal sconces need to be hung yet. I want to change the paint as well. Overall, I am very happy. I think it's the perfect home for us and I look forward to many years here.
A midwest mom shares and reflects on the love for her Dear Son Matthew and the challenges of everyday life with a severely disabled young man. In addition, she shares her love for decorating, organizing and keeping a clean home. ©2006-2024. All Rights Reserved.
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9 comments:
Congratulations! I'm jealous, but happy for you :)
It looks perfect! That large window in Matthew's room and rich finishes for you to work your decorating magic. I know what you mean about wanting a house vs. a townhouse, but I'm thinking it might be a good compromise if you're not responsible for the exterior maintenance. Can't wait to see what you do with it!!
Congratulations! Your new home is beautiful. And thank you for sharing Matthew's name with us. I'm a long-time reader, and I always wondered what his name was.
This is a beautiful home! Have fun making it your own! I love the open and accessible floor plan. It's perfect!
Hi Dream Mom!
It has been some time since I last popped in, but I am thrilled to hear about your new home. It is beautiful and I wish both you and Dear Son lots of good times in your new place.
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Glad you are happy with it - it looks lovely. I've been popping in regularly to see how you are getting on!
For an ignorant foreigner: what's the difference between a house and a townhouse?
Thanks, everyone for hanging in there and checking in on us! I'll be sharing more posts once we get settled in a bit.
Eileen-A house is detached and has a yard. A townhome is an attached house that has yard space with the exterior/yard that is maintained by an association for a monthly fee. In my case, there are four ranch townhomes attached to the others via the garage wall and living room wall. It's soundproof and I've never heard one thing so far. The great thing about these townhomes is that they are one level with no one above us. We do have freedome to plant bushes, flowers and trees but the association does all of the mowing and snow removal. This is a simplified explanation but I hope it helps.
What a great space! It looks like it has a great flow. Thank you for sharing and for the visit and sweet comment at The Dedicated House! It means the world. I would love it if you would share this post at my Make it Pretty Monday party which goes live at 8am CDT on Monday. Here's the link if you want to check it out. http://thededicatedhouse.blogspot.com/2013/05/make-it-pretty-monday-week-50.html Hope to see you at the bash! Have a happy weekend. Toodles, Kathryn @TheDedicatedHouse
Hi Dream Mom,
Hope you are getting all settled in your new home. I can't wait to see how you have decorated and personalized it for you and Matthew.
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